Last weekend we met another potential friend for Wifey. They had been talking for several days and the fit seemed like it might be just what we were looking for. A special friend for Wifey, and maybe some kinky play for all of us. Wifey was definitely led to believe that she was the main person of interest in the three of us, and that was what we wanted.
We decided we would meet Saturday for lunch, and since the person was driving a couple of hours to where we live, if we hit it off she would be invited to our home and even allowed to spend the night. Those are big things for me. I don’t let just anyone into our life like that, the fit has to seem right!
So it went really well at lunch. Conversation flowed nicely, there was no awkward silence, and so we decided to go forward! K and I left the restaurant to go get groceries, as we had been busy all week and wanted to be able to make a nice breakfast for our company the next day, and Wifey and her friend left to go to our house to start getting all girly and pretty for us. I don’t let Wifey go out with much fem in public where we live because of work mainly, so this person was nice enough to wait and get dressed after lunch, which I appreciated.
When K and I returned home, they were both ready and looked pretty. Both of them wearing purple (my favorite color) and we got started with a few drinks and all went into the living room. I do want to mention that she brought me flowers, also purple, which was a nice touch! I don’t really ever get fresh flowers given to me so I did not even have a real vase and had to use a glass. We spent the evening mainly relaxing in the living room, sipping our drinks and talking.
As the night went on I decided to have a little fun with Wifey for our entertainment. I had her use her vibe on her cage, after making her show her caged clitty off to her new friend. I also had K crop her balls, and we spanked her cute little ass with a paddle and crop. Her friend expressed interest in being part of Wifey’s torment of her clitty getting hard in her tiny cage, and wanting to see her tormented, so I figured I would do a few things to lead to that.
There were a few times where she reached out and ran her finger nails through the cage along Wifey’s clitty, and we gazed in amusement when she was leaking a big wet spot through her panties. That is as far as I had any play go on this night, as I was just putting feelers out there, and truth be told, this is all new to us, and I want to be open minded about what can happen when we find the right friend, but since this is the first time for a lot of this I won’t know how I really feel about things till they happen.
When K and I were ready for bed we retired upstairs. I was nice enough to allow Wifey to sleep in one of the guest rooms with her friend, as both had expressed interest in wanting a friendship where there could be cuddling and fondling. I was clear there was not to be anything sexual at this time, but that I was okay with that type of affection. It was a different feeling heading to bed without Wifey, but I was happy for her and it did not bother me at all.
Everything sounds like it was going great, right?
Well at 5 am my dog starts barking and carrying on like crazy and I realize the front door is closing. I got up to check it out, and Wifey was headed back upstairs, telling me her friend had to leave, due to a power outage at home. I couldn’t help but wonder if this was true or not true, given the circumstances. After all the commotion I could not get back to sleep so I stayed up while she and K slept more. I was able to check online and find out there were indeed power outages in her area, but it wasn’t such a huge amount of people with outages, so for all I know maybe she checked online herself before using that as an excuse to leave. I really don’t know. I would like to think it is all true, because she said there was flooding and she ended up losing a lot of her stuff.
What I do know though, is that if I have a lovely time at someone’s home for the first time I am going to show some appreciation and hospitality regardless if I had to leave to go home and deal with a flooded basement. That is just basic courtesy and something you do if you don’t want to appear to be rude. As Sunday went on and on and there was no word, I grew more and more pissed off! Wifey tried reaching out later at night, when our messages through the day were ignored, and she texted back very vague things.
By Monday morning the Mistress in me came out, and I needed an answer and to make some basic things clear if this was going to continue, as I will not tolerate rudeness or anyone hurting my precious Wifey! This person did give me the classic blow off answers Monday and never had the decency to talk to Wifey again. That is the second time that this has happened, where I have to relay to Wifey, the main one the person should be wanting to be involved with, that they no longer want to be involved with her. GROW UP PEOPLE! Have some basic human kindness and take some fricken accountability for your actions! In the classic blow off it became evident to me that this person was mainly after submitting to me, and I think she fed Wifey everything we wanted to hear to hopefully end up getting to me.
This is going to be an interesting journey to find the right fit, and we are learning more and more how to approach this as we go along, to hopefully avoid me being the main one someone is seeking. At the very least I wish people would just be more honest. We three have so much to offer someone in this lifestyle, but no one will get anywhere with us unless they are more upfront on what they want! I am very good at getting to the bottom of a pile of bullshit!