Today is our first anniversary with K! It was one year ago today that we met him for the first time, and once we met we just knew this was something we had to explore, and we soon began spending each day together. I think once we met, other than when one of us traveled to visit family, we only spent a couple of nights apart. Somehow you just know when it is right, and Wifey and I saw no need to not open ourselves to this working out so well and so we truly welcomed K into our life and our home.
I can remember the anticipation of going to meet him on this day a year ago. We had only been talking for 2 days, but there was just something different about him from the other numerous men I was corresponding with (and really not enjoying chatting with) that I had a good feeling about him. As soon as he shared a picture of himself, I perked up, I thought he was so cute and his lips looked so kissable.
When we met at the restaurant, as soon as I saw him I really just melted. He was even more adorable in person, and those lips, well I just really wanted to kiss them! We had a couple drinks and the three of us started to get to know each other. Conversation flowed easily, but what was even more exciting was how we looked at each other. We really looked at each other, it was a feeling I can’t describe, just starting into each other’s eyes, almost like a magnet. There were so many times I almost leaned over the table to just kiss him, and I wanted to so badly, but I didn’t.
Now here we are a year later, and it feels like so much longer than a year, in a good way, and I can kiss those sexy lips any time I want to. We have pretty much all lived together from a couple weeks in, with very few glitches or issues to work through. When it is right, it is just right. I never anticipated we would find ourselves in this type of life, living poly, with a third person full-time, but it just happened and made us happy, so we went with it!
Now I can’t imagine life any other way. It feels normal, it feels right and it makes us all happy! Together we all have a close knit relationship, Wifey and I are still as close as ever and K and I have built a strong relationship that has the same values as the one I have with Wifey. We had a few things to work our way through, mainly all of us adjusting to our new life, and K adjusting to having people and a partner, after having lived on his own for many years. He had his own adjustment to go through with it not being just him anymore, but he has shaped up to be a very loving, loyal and thoughtful partner. There is no doubt how much he loves me, how much he cares about me being happy and how trustworthy he is. And I love that he has embraced life with Wifey like he has, helping me dominate her as I want, and being thoughtful of her and her happiness too.
Happy Anniversary K! I love you and I am so glad you found me!