Living life in a threesome is fun, interesting, and has many pros with little cons, but the hardest part for sure is not being able to share with the entire world the dynamic you are living in. Not everyone would understand, and most would think we are demented, although we are, in a GREAT way!
The pros are that we have each other’s back. Who wouldn’t love the care and devotion from more than one life partner? Life is hard enough sometimes, having a bigger inner circle is never a bad thing. Of course this only works if everyone is sane, secure and content. There can’t be jealousy or comparisons or this dynamic will never work. Each person is unique with their own personality, and each relationship is unique. Wifey and K are not the same person, so the relationships I have with each of them are different. The way we all communicate is different, but the important part is that we do all communicate well and often.
The way we live is as three people. Each relationship has its own special time, when the focus is on two and the other one is occupied, but for the most part we all spend the majority of time together and all sleep lined up in a king size bed together.
K and I do most of the shopping together, as Wifey doesn’t care for shopping much, but Wifey does all of our laundry. So we all contribute something that makes things function pretty smoothly.
We will get more into our kinky dynamic in future posts.